In much of the early Christian literature, the Kingdom of God was often compared to a banquet. This Sunday’s parable of the royal wedding banquet, a story of a King hosting a marriage feast for his son is no different. It starts off by sending his servants to hand deliver the invitation ahead of time to those he intended to be in attendance, mostly the privileged few, the insiders, the elite and yes, by invitation only. No wedding crashers allowed. I bet you if someone breaks in, it will, surely, go viral in a heartbeat. Since the King is throwing a wedding party, expect a 10 (full) course meal. I don’t know what’s on the menu but I can guarantee you it’s definitely not arroz y frijoles, coffee, donuts, macaroni and cheese and bottled water. I love weddings. It is a special occasion of enjoyment and delight, off the normal daily grind. In some cultures, it is a week-long event, if not days of festivity. If the wedding falls on Saturday, party starts on Thursday. In such a special occasion, everyone appears in high definition. Wedding guests seem nice and put smile on their faces.
Accordingly, the invited guests initially accepted the king’s invitation by word of mouth. However, when the second and last reminder came out which signaled that the banquet was about to begin and actually ready, a practice in the ancient times, they refused and made all the excuses in the world for personal and business affairs without detailed reasons even resorting to violence.
Sadly, to turn down and ignore the invitation of the king is a breach of etiquette. For heaven’s sake, you do not refuse the invitation of the most influential figure. Even if you have already made a previous plan, cancel it and move it to a different date. There is nothing like a wedding banquet thrown by a king. Isaiah says, “On this mountain the Lord of hosts will provide for all peoples a feast of rich food and choice wines, juicy, rich food and pure, choice wines” (Isaiah 25: 6). It is an opportunity of a lifetime. Otherwise, you are missing out a lot from merriment, delicious food and the best wines. To be invited by a king, let alone a dignitary is always an honor and a privilege that anyone invited should consider cancelling a prior engagement to make it to the once- in- a- lifetime royal wedding banquet.
To the dismay of the king, he had no choice but ordered the servants to call anyone good and bad in the streets, in the countryside, in the marketplace which they did to fill the banquet hall. Then, the king came and greeted everyone. Noticing that one of them was not properly dressed, he said, friend, how come you came without your wedding garment? This wedding robe question is the most puzzling and baffling part of this parable. How can we expect someone in the street let alone this fellow to dress in a wedding robe suited for the royal occasion if the invitation came unexpectedly, in a moment’s notice. The under dressed guest didn’t say anything and kept silence. If it was me, I probably would have pleaded, your majesty, it was a last minute invitation, what do you expect? I was just sitting in the street corner watching people around and out of nowhere, your servants grabbed me by the hand and brought me here. I wish I had time to go home, scrounge for clothes in the closet, change and dress appropriately. And yet, there’s not much we can do as this is a royal banquet. We know what that means. Admission is free but there is a dress code. It is a free invitation but there is a standard to be followed. If you agree to come even at the last minute, you have no choice but Rise to the occasion! Even though the invitation came on a short notice, the king had every right to demand a special formal attire. If you find yourself as one of the unlikely guests and think you didn’t have the luxury of time, still put on your best clothes, wear your Sunday’s best, refrain from making excuses, face the challenge because this is a royal occasion hosted by the king. You cannot afford to miss it.
One of the most exciting things about getting invited to a wedding and actually planning to go whether part of the entourage or not, is that figuring out the clothes to wear, your attire making sure you look absolutely stunning takes time. To be dressed inappropriately in a wedding is an embarrassment. The mere fact that the king threw the unidentified guest out of the party, wedding garment must have been very important. We must be prepared anytime. We know what we wear in the heavenly banquet is not our evening dresses/gowns, tuxedos, blue jeans, flip-flops, or t-shirts but the sacred teachings, the lord’s commands, the righteous deeds, the charitable works, etc. This is what we bring on the eternal banquet. To practice such things doesn’t require special skills and talents, only the priceless robes of welcome and hospitality, decency and integrity, selflessness, forgiveness, service, generosity, patience and understanding.
The entire allegory is a preview of the heavenly banquet, an eschatological dimension. The church is the palace of the king regardless of its architecture. We are then invited or we have been invited and responded to the king’s invitation. Although not everyone responds at the same level and frequency and yet, this is the place where we joyfully commune with God and with our fellow believers through the Eucharist, a great occasion to be together. Amen.
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May God bless you abundantly!
Bishop Edward J. Weisenburger